Saffleurs’ Musings

Due to My own error, having thought I did give credit to the author of the post that was here. I apparently did not. As per his comment below. If you’d like to read the original content please visit http://www.whatamanknows.com/how-to-command-respect/

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I don’t get to post much lately with how work is going but I am here now and can do so. It’s funny to find myself at odds with some things. There is Kathryn who drives me insane a lot but yet I persist.

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I read many books and usually I can knock out one in a week and move on keeping thoughts of the book in mind. Certain lines, memorizing it by only reading it once even. This book however has struck me something fierce and yet I do not know why. Or perhaps I do.

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There is all kinds of things going on in life. From getting stunning benefits at work including a pension that is drawable after 6 months, free medical, dental and vision, as well as other wonderful things. So while I dislike work and such I will stay as the means to the end seem good for now.

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I want to start off by saying that what I say here is not in any way a conclusive answer. The points expressed are solely mine, if others choose to agree then so be it. You may not like or agree with what I will be saying but it is how I feel and I am unlikely to change that.

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It has occurred to me as I have watched discussions on forums, in chat, and more importantly in life that sometimes people really do not realize what they do.

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What is respect to you? Now, I mean this in the most basic of ways. So much a basic level that you should close your eyes and center yourself. Then look deep within and determine what respect means to you.

Does this respect that you have found within yourself have a bar level? Meaning is it given freely then left to see if someone will squander it away? Do you shout the often quoted and some what over used phrase;

Respect is earned, not given.

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I have been thinking of this lately. What is the Gorean Mentality? In order to understand this it means we must first understand what the definition of ‘Mentality’ is.

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I sit here now, it’s late like always and I wonder what I can do to help others. My brain never shuts off and I never try to turn it off. I enjoy helping others complete tasks or grow in some shape or form. It makes me wonder if this site will help. If so I’m glad. I love the Gorean community and feel at home in it.

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